Individual Therapy
It isn’t all child’s play.
Being a kid or teenager, these days is hard. We may often look back on those times with nostalgia, but it’s more challenging than ever.
Developing a sense of identity and self-esteem while dealing with school, trying to fit in, making friends, and navigating social media – it all adds up to more pressure and stress than we ever experienced.
And it’s also an equation for more serious issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, or grief and loss.
And it hurts.
You love him. You want to see him happy. It’s painful to watch him struggle, and it’s even more painful for him.
But you’re both facing more significant challenges than you ever imagined – behavioral problems, anger management, relationship issues, self-worth/self-confidence development, or the unique circumstances faced by the LGBTQ+ community.
And these can branch over into motivational challenges, addiction, self-harm, and even suicidal thoughts.
Some days, you feel like raising the white flag in frustration and despair. But there’s hope. You don’t have to go it alone.
Exactly What You Need
Let me help.
Individual counseling is often the perfect solution to address what’s going on in your child’s life (or yours, for that matter) – in a secure, judgment-free environment without the pressure of having other family members around.
I work with kids ages 7 or 8 and up, teens, young adults, and adults of all ages. I can help you deal with whatever life is sending your way.
And I can also serve you if you’re looking for optional Christian spiritual integration in counseling.
I am fluent in Spanish; servicios disponible en español.
Exactly How You Need It
Every person – and every situation – is unique. When we work together, we’ll use the most appropriate approach. For minors (ages 7 or 8 through 17), I’ll likely require parental involvement; however, for most kids, having parents involved in at least part of the counseling offers many benefits.
Kids, especially teens, have rights to privacy and confidentiality. Often, parents wonder how much information I’ll disclose when I see their child. A younger child can expect less privacy, as parents need to be involved more in sessions.
But here’s the general rule of thumb: the older the minor, the less parents will know.
Balancing Trust, Confidentiality, and Safety
Typically, you can expect that I will keep things private between myself and your son.
But if he is planning to harm himself, intends to harm others, or is doing anything dangerous, I will work with him to figure out how we will share this information with you in an appropriate, mutually agreed-upon manner.
The necessity of revealing private information to parents is uncommon, however. For most issues, your son can expect full privacy.
And there are a few situations in which a teen can consent to his/her own counseling without parents. (If this is you, contact me directly to ask questions.)
Fostering Openness and Intimacy
While it’s crucial your child feels comfortable enough to trust, I do regularly encourage teens to practice honesty and share details about their lives with their parents. Often, an improved relationship with parents is a common goal.
This type of openness and sharing is beneficial for many reasons. Of course, every situation is unique, and I will always work thoughtfully with you and your child to determine what’s best.
Surprising Even the Skeptics
I’ve witnessed many young people – even extraordinarily angsty teens – express surprise about how much individual counseling can help.
After chatting with me for just a handful of sessions, you’ll experience it, too – how helpful it is to talk to someone neutral, completely removed from your life situation.
Trade the White Flag for a Victory Flag
It’s difficult; but together, we can face even the most formidable challenge.
Call me today – let’s see if we’re a good fit!
I can’t wait to work with you or your son to discover self-confidence and success.
Let’s find your smile again.